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Healing the Cycle of Narcissistic Abuse and How The Codependency Revolution can help with Terri Cole
In this video, Ross joins Terri Cole on the Terri Cole Show to discuss his new book, "The Codependency Revolution: Fixing What Was Always Broken." Within this discussion, he talks about the magnet-like forces that compel people with self-love deficit disorder/Codependency to fall in love with pathological narcissists (and vice versa) as well as the healing cycle of narcissistic abuse. More about the book: shorturl.at/9kc21
ABOUT ROSS ROSENBERG
Ross Rosenberg, M.Ed., LCPC, CADC, is a psychotherapist, educator, expert witness, and celebrated author. He is also a global thought leader and clinical expert in codependency, trauma, pathological narcissism, narcissistic abuse, and addictions.
Ross's pioneering codependency contributions are responsible for the sweeping theoretical and practical updates and developing a treatment program that permanently resolves it. Ross has been featured on national TV and radio and is a regular radio and podcast guest.
In addition, he has traveled the world, giving his one-of-a-kind keynote presentations and educational workshops. His global impact is best illustrated by his UA-cam channel with 28 million views and 285,000 subscribers and the sale of 185,000 Human Magnet Syndrome books published in 12 languages. In 2013, Ross created The Self-Love Recovery Institute, a hub for his personal development, workshops, professional training, retreats, other programs, and services.
Learn more at www.SelfLoveRecovery.com.
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Escaping, But Not Learning: Codependent Threshold Reactors
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In this video, Ross Rosenberg, M.Ed, LCPC, CADC, discusses Codependent Threshold Reactors as a type of codependent personality characterized by intense emotional reactions and a tendency to overreact to perceived threats or slights. They often have a hair-trigger temper, quickly becoming angry and defensive when their boundaries or needs are unmet. This can lead to explosive outbursts, hurtful ...
Covert Narcissists vs Sociopaths. ASPD vs NPD. A Deep Dive
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In this video, Ross Rosenberg, M.Ed., LCPC, CADC, explains the distinct characteristics between covert narcissism and sociopathy. In this deep dive, he elaborates that both disorders involve a degree of manipulation and lack of concern for others, the motivations and behaviors associated with each are different. Covert narcissists seek admiration and validation, whereas sociopaths are driven by...
My New Book: The Codependency Revolution - An Introduction on the Covert Narcissist Podcast
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In Renee Swanson's Covert Narcissism Podcast, I talk about my new book, "The Codependency Revolution: Fixing What Was Always Broken." Within this discussion we talked about the magnet-like forces that compel people with self-love deficit disorder/Codependency to fall in love with pathological narcissists (and vice versa). More about the book: shorturl.at/9kc21 To learn more about Renee Swanson:...
Permanently Escape Narcissistic Abuse Through the Self-Love Recovery Technique
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In this video, Ross Rosenberg, M.Ed., LCPC, CADC, discusses the only effective strategy to permanently escape narcissistic abuse and any potential for repeating it with the next romantic partner. The answer is simple; the explanation makes a whole lot of sense, but the process takes a bit of time. It can be accomplished through Rosenberg's Self-Love Recovery Treatment Method (Program). In the v...
Narcissist Trauma Leakage: What you need to know.
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Narcissist Trauma Leakage: What you need to know.
Trauma’s Role in The Creation of Self-Love Deficit Disorder (Codependency) with Riana Milne, MA
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Trauma’s Role in The Creation of Self-Love Deficit Disorder (Codependency) with Riana Milne, MA
YOU ARE NOT SUBHUMAN! A Narcissist Stole Your Independence and Integrity
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YOU ARE NOT SUBHUMAN! A Narcissist Stole Your Independence and Integrity
Essential Information: Narcissists, Sociopaths aka Narcissistic & Antisocial Personality Disorders
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Essential Information: Narcissists, Sociopaths aka Narcissistic & Antisocial Personality Disorders
Narcissists Are Afraid of Aging And Dying. They Pretend to Change
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Narcissists Are Afraid of Aging And Dying. They Pretend to Change
Beware of Bait and Switch: How Narcissist Deceive
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Beware of Bait and Switch: How Narcissist Deceive
Trauma Recovery / The Adult Chair Program. Michelle Chalfant
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Trauma Recovery / The Adult Chair Program. Michelle Chalfant
Observe Don't Absorb #shorts #shortvideo #codependency #narcissist
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Observe Don't Absorb #shorts #shortvideo #codependency #narcissist
Managing Expectations: Calculating & Preparing for Logical Outcomes. Observe Don't Absorb
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Managing Expectations: Calculating & Preparing for Logical Outcomes. Observe Don't Absorb
Observe Don't Absorb #shorts #shortvideo
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Observe Don't Absorb #shorts #shortvideo
Perfect Love Isn't Real. Beware of Drug Happiness
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Perfect Love Isn't Real. Beware of Drug Happiness
Love Bombing, Induced Conversation, Observe Don't Absorb. Terri Cole's Podcast
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Love Bombing, Induced Conversation, Observe Don't Absorb. Terri Cole's Podcast
Resolving Trauma & Core Shame Cures Codependency / Self-Love Deficit Disorder
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Resolving Trauma & Core Shame Cures Codependency / Self-Love Deficit Disorder
Ego "Amputated" Narcissists & Emotional "Prostheses" Codependents
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Ego "Amputated" Narcissists & Emotional "Prostheses" Codependents
Pathological Loneliness: The Concept That Revolutionized The Codependency Field
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Pathological Loneliness: The Concept That Revolutionized The Codependency Field
Relationship Math: The Sum of Healthy and Unhealthy Relationships
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Relationship Math: The Sum of Healthy and Unhealthy Relationships
Covert Narcissism - Q&A with Ross Rosenberg
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Covert Narcissism - Q&A with Ross Rosenberg
From Covert Narcissism Victim to Podcast Renown Host - Renee Swanson's Journey
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From Covert Narcissism Victim to Podcast Renown Host - Renee Swanson's Journey
High Conflict Relationships: Self-Love Deficit, Delusions & Boundaries
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High Conflict Relationships: Self-Love Deficit, Delusions & Boundaries
Worst Case Scenario - Q&A with Ross Rosenberg
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Worst Case Scenario - Q&A with Ross Rosenberg
"Worst Case Scenario Technique" May Save Your Life
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"Worst Case Scenario Technique" May Save Your Life
Escaping Core Shame. Self-Love Abundance is the Cure!
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Escaping Core Shame. Self-Love Abundance is the Cure!
Gaslighting - A Severe Mental Health Condition
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Gaslighting - A Severe Mental Health Condition
Gaslighting By What Is NOT Said. Invisible Gaslighters.
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Gaslighting By What Is NOT Said. Invisible Gaslighters.
''Trigometer'' Childhood Trauma Warning System - Fast & Automatic
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''Trigometer'' Childhood Trauma Warning System - Fast & Automatic

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  • @joannehuie3367
    @joannehuie3367 13 хвилин тому

    Bpd is very different from npd , and socipaths offend end up in jail. They are all seperate personal disorders for. A reason ...

  • @ManuBenmohamedsalah
    @ManuBenmohamedsalah 36 хвилин тому

    Abusers send always some doctors to finish their work any way this abusers send more abusers on the table and that’s should be stop 🛑 the sickness is forgivable but wearing another person sickness is an abuse .

  • @Deelynn-woohoo
    @Deelynn-woohoo Годину тому

    Nowhere to run.

  • @elisabeth2959
    @elisabeth2959 2 години тому

    They feed off you.... it's life-changing when they finally show their true intentions can destroy someone....

  • @jillaristeo3194
    @jillaristeo3194 3 години тому

    Dishonest is an understatement. They have a secret life that you don't even know about.

  • @NA-xi5hj
    @NA-xi5hj 3 години тому

    Please go into this further. My ex fiance fkd me up bad and he's a cover narc and I thought he had like alexythmia or some ish but possibly bordering aspd. He used to light ish on fire when he was younger, too. He strangled me a few times, too.

  • @BrendaJBentley
    @BrendaJBentley 3 години тому

    Awful to understand that

  • @stiffmiester300
    @stiffmiester300 4 години тому

    I’ve studied. NPD for 15 years and still don’t think I’ll understand this disorder it’s so pervasive and damaging to those near the narcissist they try to make the scapegoat walk on egg shells and to doubt themselves they are seriously crazy

  • @AugenaufbeimAktienkauf
    @AugenaufbeimAktienkauf 4 години тому

    I am currently treating my gf xD Maybe I am just training her, or maybe she really is making progress... dunno. Anybody any experience? So what I am trying to show her is, that nothing is dangerous in this world to her. I don't do anything for her but be happy and enjoying life. I ignore when she asks for help and she can do all the stuff herself. And I talk indirectly about Narcs because all of my family are narcs (hard to believe and I am still not sure, but the behavior is just...). So I have not told her, that I know she is a covert but I will soon, but I will also tell her, that I will not abandon her. We will not be a couple (we are not really a couple anymore haha). She gets very nervous every time I point out behavior of narcs and she realizes that she has done the same and she tries to explain it away. Maybe she is just suffering and I am turtering her... Dunno. Not my intention. So my explanation for narcissism is that the parents didn't protect the kids from the world. They should have shown their kids what is a danger and what is no problem (in my life everything was a big danger!!! I realized my dad always told me how afraid he was of sharks. When I pointed out that there are no sharks in German waters, he said: well still you never know. I was afraid of sharks for 36 yrs even while diving) So reality for a narc is just dangerous and creates a lot of fear and that's why they want to destroy you: If you seem weaker than them, then they don't feel so bad about their fears and themselves in general. They are just little kids who don't know better (doesn't feel like it, when they mistreat you haha). I woke up after 36 yrs and I forgave my family, I know what it means to be a narc, because I lived in their world for a while. Talked to my brother about his fears of receiving letters in the mail. Same thing but my fear just went away. I never knew that there were nice people out there. I thought everybody was out to get you: EVERYBODY. I always knew that something was wrong with me but... 36 yrs later.

  • @cherylanderson1308
    @cherylanderson1308 4 години тому

    This my husband

  • @cherylanderson1308
    @cherylanderson1308 4 години тому

    My husband

  • @TliaFree
    @TliaFree 4 години тому

    Literally doing this now

  • @psydecarmusicproductions8094
    @psydecarmusicproductions8094 5 годин тому

    Yes he does indeed

  • @user-hs7zg1ho1p
    @user-hs7zg1ho1p 5 годин тому

    Yep

  • @lindaslotzberg2565
    @lindaslotzberg2565 5 годин тому

    Thank you.

  • @blooming96
    @blooming96 6 годин тому

    I found this video by googling “narcissism vs psychopathy” to better understand the overlap area for my own personal healing and transformation of my narcissistic traits from growing up with a dangerous psychopath father. Thank you for this video

  • @sideswiped6874
    @sideswiped6874 6 годин тому

    I know one that is extremely good at it. sneaky and quiet as a rat

  • @Justine-ut8ho
    @Justine-ut8ho 7 годин тому

    One of the hardest aspects of my own healing is realizing my own need for a Victimizer. I do not blame myself for it. My ACE score is 9. There are behavioral, family systems, and brain circuit issues that made me this way. But I must take responsibility for that part of me. It’s literally the work of my life. And it’s taking years, but I am doing it.

    • @Justine-ut8ho
      @Justine-ut8ho 7 годин тому

      And I love Human Magnet Syndrome!!!

  • @blooming96
    @blooming96 7 годин тому

    I appreciate this video. I am healing my narcissistic traits and this was very helpful

  • @PeterShaw-ne1yq
    @PeterShaw-ne1yq 7 годин тому

    Narcs are malicious actors 🤔

  • @blue.5058
    @blue.5058 7 годин тому

    This is my parents in a nutshell. I often wonder how and why they would bring new lives into the world , only to treat them negatively. I refuse to have anything to do with them, especially after suffering a stroke over a month ago. Both parents made my medical situation about themselves, even refusing to acknowledge what they’re doing. I could literally hear my father say, “I don’t care if he lives or dies!” through the cell phone as my wife notified him of my situation. Then he went on this strange tirade about “loving himself”. Spoken like a true narcissist to me. My father also “fathered” someone out-of-wedlock, got sued by the mother (someone he met at a bar), went through a paternity case, lost his business, and required ME to help him out. The worst part of this was that my mother advocated for my father and essentially echoed what he said and he did (that he got busted and I “just HAD” to help him”). I was just a means to an end to him, even now.

  • @hidayahamilton6011
    @hidayahamilton6011 7 годин тому

    I am curious about something. There is a very famous entertainer right now who is everywhere. Been on a very long tour and has a history of using 'art' to get revenge. Very applauded and rewarded forbit. think this person displays the signs of a covert narc, what do you think?

  • @melissasibbald4617
    @melissasibbald4617 7 годин тому

    Pretending that one is well and happy when one is not in order to have positive responses from people is not narcissistic. It's people pleasing as a trauma response. I think more specific info is needed here.

  • @doranvee5944
    @doranvee5944 7 годин тому

    They are like a lion waiting waiting waiting for their prey. They plan, deceive, manipulate. At the right time, they go for the kill.

  • @michaelcartwright3327
    @michaelcartwright3327 8 годин тому

    You cant Fix it with love, empathy accountabilty graditude ors silent treatment,you just have to let go

  • @salvatorethomas9546
    @salvatorethomas9546 8 годин тому

    I have decades of experience with various covert narcissists before I knew what a narcissist was.. What your saying is 100% true. Today, I recognize thir behavior and they never get a chance to play me. Complete frauds.

  • @SunflowerSunflower-ig5ld
    @SunflowerSunflower-ig5ld 8 годин тому

    I'm not dealing with anyone like that.

  • @chrishere4272
    @chrishere4272 8 годин тому

    They aren’t pretending…they truly believe they are #1 in every aspect. They are very delusional

  • @lpn4375
    @lpn4375 8 годин тому

    Merciful heavens this is exactly what I am up against. Thank you for sharing this with us. I cannot thank you enough for the knowledge you have. It sheds so much light into my situation.

  • @hongchonginternational6348
    @hongchonginternational6348 8 годин тому

    I am getting your book the human magnet thank you so so much! I find it very difficult to evolve in my life with narc parents ect I am looking forward to healing & evolving to high states of consciousness!

  • @dmcsunshine1
    @dmcsunshine1 8 годин тому

    That be my X husband

  • @gayleneflower398
    @gayleneflower398 9 годин тому

    Can we throw in avoidant personality disorders. They blame blame blame never admit and don’t get therapy and don’t say there sorry.

  • @user-xb3yp2px6b
    @user-xb3yp2px6b 9 годин тому

    My ex-husband. Exactly this.

  • @shalaemayville9863
    @shalaemayville9863 10 годин тому

    Covert narcissist are the most dangerous. This is true. I can't explain their crazy making behavior and no one believes you because they are so good at acting.

  • @franciscogil7149
    @franciscogil7149 10 годин тому

    Pure Evil

  • @angiea8022
    @angiea8022 11 годин тому

    Covert narcs ARE extremely dangerous But they're everywhere!

  • @rachellady4635
    @rachellady4635 11 годин тому

    How do I have a relationship with my child who was diagnosed with NPD?

  • @bonnieromick9397
    @bonnieromick9397 11 годин тому

    Thank you for taking this seriously. Oh yeah my victimization by a Covert Narcissist/ and ASPD forced changes. My whole world was rocked by this nightmare personality Oh I get it!

  • @colette2612
    @colette2612 11 годин тому

    I am so sorry you are going through this. You are not alone and many of us understand 100% what is happening to you. They are sick in the head, sadistic, relentless, vengeful, calculating, nasty conniving, extremely dangerous people who dont give a darn about anybody but themselves. After my mom died, I had enough of my dad's abuse and when I stopped allowing him to emotionally abuse me anymore, he went absolute NUTS. If it werent for my husband, I would drop absolutely everything and leave this country and never look back because they just wont let up. As numbing as it is for you right now, dont let him take your power. Unplug, and stay away from him, and your kids if they are old enough to make their own decisions. There is nothing more you can do. :( Good luck

  • @user-td5ff3ys5o
    @user-td5ff3ys5o 12 годин тому

    The shame of my youth Transformed an became fear of being betrayed in my adult life

  • @franciscocardenas5758
    @franciscocardenas5758 13 годин тому

    Well put!

  • @almostfamous791
    @almostfamous791 13 годин тому

    I was 40 yrs old and it was my mother...it was like waking up from a dream and seeing reality...I knew something wasnt normal with my childhood...it has been devastating to understand you were never loved, or wanted.

  • @u2canmakeadifference603
    @u2canmakeadifference603 13 годин тому

    Talking to children is easier said then done. My kids were in their early teens when my ex and I separated. My ex-wife had already started to turn the kids against me before we split. When the kids witness the verbal and emotional abuse that is inflicted on you, you’re already not in good standing with kids, despite all of my efforts to be involved in their lives and be a good father. That is the most frustrating part in my opinion. One phrase/response that I said often to my ex-wife was “you never give me credit for all that I’ve done with and for the kids”. Typical Narcissist trait, “What have you done for me lately?” There is a video that’s about a parent that was sent to jail for Parent Alienation. That would be wonderful, but would most likely to sever your ties to your children forever.

  • @hildejohannessen
    @hildejohannessen 13 годин тому

    Word ❤Thank you

  • @janluke4076
    @janluke4076 13 годин тому

    A coach, I was married to one.

  • @Parnel-kj1ou
    @Parnel-kj1ou 13 годин тому

    I know this is not a political video. I can't help but be reminded of tRump every single time I hear about narcissists, though.

  • @marmaladesunrise
    @marmaladesunrise 14 годин тому

    So they destabilize as they destroy....

  • @ThisIsMe155
    @ThisIsMe155 14 годин тому

    Surrender ALL to God!! No other solution!! He WILL help you. Thoughts and Prayers. 💯💔😪💔😪💔❤️🦋🙏

  • @dulceoliveira3601
    @dulceoliveira3601 15 годин тому

    What about the malignant narcissistic?

  • @YHWH33
    @YHWH33 15 годин тому

    The latest episode was silent treatment for the entire day and when I brought that up the next day on the way to the church.he said the previous day I didn't respond to him when I had headphones on, ridiculous. No apology, no accountability, blame shifting, victim mentality. He dropped me at the church and left ,telling me to find my way back home.